1. Don’t Force Interaction, Give Space
   Even if you want to show affection, approaching your cat without giving them space can have the opposite effect.

• Do not force them onto your lap

• Allow them to explore you at their own pace

• If they are new, limit direct eye contact during the first few days

Remember: Trust begins when the cat chooses to approach you.

1. Move Slowly and Calmly
   Cats are highly sensitive to sudden movements. When interacting with your cat:

• Use a soft, low voice

• Move your hands slowly

• Sit beside them rather than leaning over

This helps prevent your cat from perceiving you as a threat.

1. Establish a Routine
   Cats thrive on routine. Consistent daily habits make them feel secure.

• Keep feeding and playtimes as consistent as possible

• Stick to daily cleaning and care rituals

• Avoid making drastic changes in the environment

1. Use Positive Reinforcement
   Reinforcing your cat’s positive behaviors strengthens trust.

• Offer favorite treats when they approach

• Gently pet them when they visit you

• Reward them during play sessions

Tip: Treats are an effective tool for building trust, but avoid overdoing it.

1. Use Eye Contact Appropriately
   Prolonged direct eye contact can feel threatening to cats. Instead:

• Blink slowly (a feline sign of “I trust you”)

• Occasionally break eye contact to give them comfort

If your cat returns the slow blink, trust has likely been established.

1. Interact Through Play
   Shared playtime helps your cat see you as a source of fun.

• Use interactive toys like feather wands or lasers

• Engage with games that stimulate their hunting instincts

• Quietly participate in their playtime

1. Patience and Calmness Are Key
   Each cat has a unique personality. Some gain trust within days, others may take weeks.

• Respect your cat’s pace

• Don’t give up after initial setbacks

• Strive to understand their behaviors

1. Veterinary Check and Health Considerations
   For some cats that do not easily build trust, underlying issues may be physical.

• They may avoid contact due to pain or illness

• If trust is not developing, a veterinary check is recommended

Conclusion
Providing your cat with a sense of security is the first step to earning their trust. Approaching them gently, patiently, and consistently will allow you to observe positive changes in their behavior. Once you have gained their trust, this bond can become a lifelong friendship.

Remember: Your cat’s trust is not given; it is earned. Allow them to choose you.